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What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

11.06.2025 21:30

What is the most interesting question you can ask to get to know someone?

18~ Who/when was your first “crush”?

How many times do you think you have “made love”?

7~ How many times in one day have you had sex? Who/When/Where? Care to Share?

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3- What was the most surprising thing you’ve learned about me throughout our relationship?

What do you dislike about me? I asked you to be 100% honest.

31~ What do you find most attractive sexually and non-sexually in a man/woman? (Body and Personality)

What is the best sex you have ever had (in detail)?

14- What's your favorite dessert? Do you a least favorite?

93~ Now that this really long questionnaire is over, one last question, ok maybe 3…

(Dildo, vibrator, nipple clamp, cock ring, butt plug and tail, couples’ toys, pocket pussy/sleeves, Ben-wa balls, pumps, gags, strap-on, remote controlled, vibrating panties, ETC…)

Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support. I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized. he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that. he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened. he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence. i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction. after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly. things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it. we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe … our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far? this has upset me so much its hard to even function.

*** What’s Your Favorite…? ***

7- What if a person smells a certain way? 8- How about smoking?

15- What's your favorite saying? What word or phrase is your least favorite?

Why are leftist movements so popular among young people?

6~ How many sexual partners have you had? Can you name them all? Can you remember when and where?

49~ How many times have you been married? Why did they end?

34- Ever been to a concert? What was your favorite? Who would you like to see?

What type of crossdresser are you?

17- Have you ever done drugs? Which ones? How often?

Nothing too Serious

7- What are your thoughts on religion? Is there an afterlife?

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24- What celebrities would you use your hall pass on? How about just dinner, or just hanging out with you?

1- What’s your (zodiac, astrological) sign? Do you believe this has any meaning in your life?

Is it ok for a man to perform oral sex after he has ejaculated inside of you?

There's no way Republican Trump won all seven swing states. How was he able to cheat and steal the election?

1- What was your first impression of me? Has it changed?

1- Down the back or over the top? (The toilet paper roll) 2- Up or down? (The toilet seat)

Teacher/Student Stranger/One Night Stand

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What was the longest? What was the shortest?

66~ What’s the shortest time it’s ever taken for you to have an orgasm? And the longest?

70~ Would/do you have/like anal sex?

Has anyone been tricked into having sex with a shemale? How was the experience?

16- Can we talk about your health history? Have you had any surgeries? Any broken bones?

64~ When was your very first orgasm? When was your first from having sex? Care to share?

85~ If I gave you a “Free Pass” for you to do anything to me for one hour, knowing that no matter what you did,

If a guy is attracting a bunch of what he believes to be "ugly" women, is he crushing the dating game?

49~ If you could, would you want to be the opposite sex for a day, week, or year?

The Ice Breaker Questions

44~ Have you ever been tied up during sex? What are your thoughts on bondage?

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92~ Have you ever had or have an STD? How many? What was it?

77~ What are your thoughts on swapping or swinging or group sex? Have you ever? Care to Share?

24~ What are your expectations in a relationship? (I know a very big question, take your time)

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8- What's something unexpected that turns you on that I do to you? Don’t be shy now, I really want to know.

92~ Everyone needs a “safe” word. What is yours?

Have you ever? Care to Share?

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37~ What is the biggest age gap between you and one of your sexual partners? Who? Care to Share?

Do you like the “69” position? Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

23~ What do you believe is required to have a successful and healthy relationship? (This is important, take your time, and really think about this)

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How long for foreplay? Do you need to have an orgasm? Is afterplay important?

5- Have you ever been hypnotized? Would you allow yourself to be?

43~ If you could write up to a one-page letter to yourself, what would you say and what age would you send it?

Why do guys have better skin than women even though women use more product?

How well do you know me? And some of your thoughts about me

Would /have you ever given your partner a lap dance and Striptease?

44~ Care to share something about yourself that no one else knows about you?

Would/have you gotten a lap dance? Would/have you watched your partner get a lap dance?

8~ How many times a week would you like to engage in sexual activities? What is the average for you now?

60~ How important is oral sex? Do you like receiving? Do you like giving?

Is there a smell that most people do not like that you do? Is there a smell that triggers a memory?

10- Do I have a habit or quirk that you find cute or weird? How about an annoying habit of mine?

33- If you could visit any time period, when would you pick? Please explain why?

58~ Have you ever taken Nude or Hard-core photos and/or videos? Care to Share?

4- For a pet, Cat, dog or other?

90~ Have you ever had sex in a Pool or Hot Tub? Would you?

20- What’s your favorite candy? What’s your least favorite?

35- Do you like playing board or cards game? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

10~ How many dates are necessary before you to have sex with someone?

26~ What side of the bed do you sleep on?

38- If you won the Lottery and got 200 million dollars, what would you do with all that money?

What is your favorite position? Why?

Would you read them together?

50~ Where would you like to be touched more? Do you have a place that you want to be touched, that no one has, or has only happened a couple times? How about less?

3~ How old were you when you got to 3rd base? (Touching and stimulating the genitals. Oral sex)

12~ Have you ever had a one-nightstand? Was it good, fun, satisfying? Would you do it again?

Does the thought excite you? Care to share?

14~ When was the first time you said, “I Love You”? (romantically) Did you mean it? Who? Care to Share?

If yes, what?

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67~ Do you like it when your partner moans and/or is vocal during sex?

How about if they talk dirty and/or call you names?

80~ Share your top three fantasies/desires. (Be detailed) 😊

72~ Is it ok to ejaculate on your body, face, ass, breast? How about in your mouth? Is there any place not allowed?

41~ What are you best at in bed? What do you think you are not so good at? Anything you want to get good at?

Nurse/Patient Celebrity/Fan

36~ What is your favorite time of day to have sex/make love?

4~ How old were you when you lost your virginity? Is it a good memory? Who? Care to Share? (be detailed)

53~ How about wearing no panties or bra at all, while wearing a dress or skirt? How about stockings and Garter Belts?

47~ Have you ever thought about trying tantric sex? (Not sure? Look it up)

50~ How many children do you have? What are their ages?

62~ Have you used adult toys?

10- What is your favorite family tradition? What’s your least favorite?

*** Random Questions ***

Will you kiss after your partner has gone down on you? Swallow or spit semen?

38~ Share your most embarrassing sexual memory?

15- What bad habit do you wish you could quit? Do you have any addictions?

76~ Have you had a threesome? Care to Share?

40~ If you could go back in time, and relive your life, with the knowledge you have now, what age would you go back to and why?

11- What's your favorite restaurant? What’s your least favorite?

54~ Would you ever go skinny dipping with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

69~ Are you willing to have sex while you or your partner is on their period? How about oral sex?

Prisoner/Prison Guard Landlord/Tenant

Model/Photographer Police/Criminal

81~ Do you have any kinks and/or fetishes?

Will you cheat again? How can, you be sure? Define what cheating is to you.

Would you allow me to clean every part of your body with my soapy hands and fingers?

Foot fetishes, Role-playing, Sadism, Masochism, Bondage, Discipline, Dominance and submission, Voyeurism, Exhibitionism, Furries, Humiliation, Gender/Age play, Cuckolding, Gagging, etc.?

14 – Is it ok to talk to you while you are on the toilet? 15- Is it ok to eat while on the toilet?

If you win, what will you make them do?

48~ Have you ever paid or been paid for sex?

5- What do I do outside the bedroom that turns you on? How about, what turns you off?

* Which of the following turns you on the most? Do you have any not on this list? Care to share?

*** Deal Breaker Questions ***

You know that I will be 100% truthful, so ask.

13- What is the craziest/scariest thing you've ever done?

Doctor/Nurse Stripper/Client

36- Do you play video games? What is your favorite? Do you a least favorite?

15~ Have you ever been “in love”? Who? Care to Share?

Repairman/Lonely Wife Virgin/Experienced

Would you ever want to be woken up with oral and/or intercourse?

Physical Touch - Words of Affirmation - Quality Time - Acts of Service - Receiving Gifts

42~ Ever been spanked during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

What is your view on sex? Meaning, When/Where/ How often/

Would you mind if your partner watched it? How about together vs alone?

Over time has your thoughts on sex changed?

46~ Have you ever used furniture, or other types of things to aid you while having sex?

23- What is your dream job? What was it as a child?

14- Do you have a “Deal Breaker”, anything that your partner has done or will do, a boundary that once crossed you are done with the relationships?

13- What’s your favorite drink? What’s your least favorite?

3- Should Pluto still be considered a planet? 4- How about smoking?

12- What’s your favorite food? What’s your least favorite?

7-What do I do in bed that drives you wild? How about, what turns you off?

34~ Do you like the lights on or off during sex?

A comprehensive questionnaire, this should be a fun exercise to get to know each other. Try to give as much detail as possible when answering questions. You can go through this together and talk about each question or fill out the questionnaire as completely as you can and once you are done, go through each question together. If you have been together for a while, it is also fun to try to answer the questions for your partner. Remember this should be fun, so if you do not wish to answer a question you can “PASS” and not answer. Both should answer honestly and without judgement. (This is important, without judgement) I hope this helps you get closer and strengthens your relationship… You can learn a lot about the other person… and yourself…

Any that are a turn off?

If you lose, are you willing to be their sex slave for a day, (anything goes)?

17~ What is the average length of your relationship(s)? What was the longest? Why did they end?

25- Fight, Flight, or Freeze? What is your typical response? Does it change with different settings?

Do you watch it? What is your favorite?

13- How about having a certain hair cut/style?

33- Beach or Mountains? Or is there another place to like better?

Do you think this brought you closer together?

27~ If you could freeze your body but not your mind at a certain age, what age would you be? Explain why.

Any that are a turn off?

4- What do you like about me? Rate me 1-10. (Looks, personality, overall, etc....)

74~ Have you ever had sex while others watched? Have you ever watched others have sex?

8- What's your favorite flavor of ice cream? Do you a least favorite?

I would allow you to do it… What would you do to me?

Get this wrong and this could mean the end… :-) some funny, some not…

14- What is an embarrassing moment in your life? How about your most embarrassing?

55~ Would you ever go to a nude beach/resort with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

30~ What's something unexpected that turns you on?

5~ When you first started having sex, was it what you thought it would be?

40~ What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever had sex?

32- What's your greatest talent? Can I see it right now?

9- Is there something you’ve always wanted to ask me but you’re afraid?

20~ Have you ever cheated? Care to Share? If you have, why do you believe that you did?

9~ How many times over your lifetime do you think you have had sex so far?

What is your favorite toy? Ever wanted to try a specific toy?

78~ Have you ever thought about making out or having sex with someone of the same sex? Care to Share?

Would you allow me to shave your legs? How about your pubic hair? How about shower sex?

46~ Where do you want to be in your life in a year? How about 5 years? How about 10 years?

9- What’s your favorite season and why? What’s your least favorite?

Can you Deep Throat? Do you like the taste of yourself?

That one or two things that made you go hmmmm, OMG or wow!

22~ What is the best pickup line anyone has ever used on you? What was the worst?

21- What's your favorite way to spend a weekend or time off?

These go from easy to answer, to OMG, you really want to know that?! to some serious thought. Take your time and have fun with this. The past is the past… it got you two here together…

What have you learned about me that was new and/or surprising?

Would you do it again, and would you rather 2 females or 2 males?

What would you say to prove to yourself that it was really you?

2- Are you afraid of anything? (Spiders, heights, snakes, etc.) What is your greatest fear?

Escort/Client Job Applicant/Hiring Manager

10- List 5 of your top pet peeves.

27- What was/ is nickname? Does it have a meaning behind it?

If YES, was it with 2 men or 2 women? Did you enjoy it?

2- What do you remember about our first date? Rate it. Rate our first kiss. Rate our first time together.

51~ Are you willing to play adult games with your partner?

26- Do you cry while watching a movie or TV show? Which one did you cry the hardest?

88~ Do you prefer me to be naked or in lingerie, PJ’s when you are sleeping?

35~ Do you like playing music in the background or silence? Is there a sexy song that tends to get you in the mood?

68~ Would you ever get your partner up from bed by using oral sex and/or intercourse?

How old are you? Male or Female?

Do you like it when they show and tell you what they want?

30- Do you prefer living in the countryside, in a town, or in a big city? Why?

22- What is your favorite childhood memory? What is your least favorite?

Do you prefer your partner’s pubic hair trimmed, Landing Strip, full bush or completely bare?

79~ How important is it to have a partner that will help and encourage you to fulfill your fantasies and desires?

42~ What’s your biggest regret in life?

11- List at least 5 things on your bucket list. Have you done any of them already?

29~ What are some things that turn you off? What is your biggest turn off?

2- What’s your favorite color? Do you a least favorite?

18- How often do you drink alcohol? What is your favorite drink?

82~ Do you have any fantasies involving Role-Playing?

Meaning if you ever say it no matter how long we have been together or where we are in the moment…

4- What’s your favorite genre of music? What’s your least favorite? Is there a song that triggers a memory?

13~ Is there a difference between, making love, having sex, and fucking?

6- Do you have dreams? Can you remember them? What do you usually dream about?

51~ What tends to bring a smile to your face?

What have you learned about yourself that you did not before this?

32~ What are your favorite foreplay activities? Kissing/Touching? Food? Toys? Role Play? Others?

85~ If you gave me a “free Pass” to have me do anything for one hour, what would you want me to do to you?

47~ What would be your dream job and why?

If you say it, I will stop, and we can talk about it when you are ready.

18- What’s your favorite way to relax after a long day? What’s your least favorite?

3- What Superhero or Superpower would you want to be/have?

19- Do/have you smoked? What do you prefer? How often?

8- What are your thoughts on politics?

29- How superstitious are you?

45~ How do you feel about me blindfolding you? How about blindfolding me?

75~ If your partner wants an orgasm/have sex when you don't desire to have sex, how do you plan to deal with their needs?

22- Do you have any birth marks? How about scars? Care to share how you got them?

Please share Did you stop?

37- Do you like your name? If you could change it, what would you change it too?

61~ How willing would you be to try new sexual positions?

59~ Have/do you masturbate? How often? What do you use? (Toys, Phone sex, Erotica, Hard Core, shower/water, etc) Would you, while your partner watches?

* Give a rating for each one (0-100)

Master/Slave Boss/Maid

5- What’s your favorite movie genre? What’s your favorite movie of all time? How many times have you watched it?

7- What’s your favorite book? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

(Strip poker, truth or dare, spin the bottle, Naked Twister, adult card games Etc.) Have you ever? Care to Share?

25~ How do you feel about PDA? (Public Display of Affection)

12- What is the weirdest thing you've ever eaten?

6- Is there anything that I do/say that irritates you? How about makes you smile and love to hear it?

41~ Are there moments in your past that you would want to change? Please share 3 of them.

Do you have a favorite? Is it ok if your partner does?

73~ Have you ever had public sex? Care to share? Have you ever had an orgasm in a public place?

Can you have multiple orgasms? Are you able to have different kinds of orgasms?

31- If given a chance to be immortal, would you take it? Why?

1- What’s your favorite animal? Do you a least favorite?

19- What’s your favorite fairytale? What’s your least favorite?

91~ Would you ever go into an adult book/toys store with me? Would you buy something?

56~ Would you ever go to a strip club with your partner? Have you ever been? Care to Share?

16- What’s your favorite vacation you have been on? What’s your least favorite? Where would you like to go?

19~ Who/when was your first “heartbreak”?

17- What’s your favorite holiday? What’s your least favorite?

89~ Do you like taking showers together?

*** Questions About Me ***

9- How about not brushing their teeth or having bad breath? 10- How about if they cuss too much?

33~ Share your thoughts on what you believe great sex/love making is to you? How long should it last?

39~ What are your love languages?

39~ Share your top three favorite/best memorable sexual experiences. Want to repeat them?

45~ What do you like about yourself? Rate yourself 1-10. (Looks, personality, etc....)

52~ Are you willing to make “those types” of bets with your partner?

28- What are some things that people do that irritate you?

20- Do you have any tattoos? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

71~ Would you give your partner a hand or foot job? Would you receive one?

57~ Describe the perfect penis/vagina. Does size really matter? What is too big/small?

43~ Ever had your hair pulled during sex? Did you like it? Would you like me to do it?

Piecing, tattoo, color hair, dress up a certain way, it could be anything… Shave me…

2~ How old were you when you got to 2nd base? (Tongue kissing, breast feeling, or outside the clothes genital contact) Who? Care to Share?

48~ Do you have any siblings? Are you close to your family?

1~ How old were you when you had your first kiss? Who? Care to Share?

65~ Describe the best orgasm you’ve ever had? Care to share?

16~ Do you believe in “soulmates”? Have you found yours? Who? Care to Share?

What’s the longest time you gone without having sex, after, having it? How much time between the others?

84~ How do you feel about reading/listening to adult stories?

9- If you could have three wishes, what would they be? Why?

63~ Is having an orgasm important every time you have sex? Have you ever faked an orgasm?

If yes, what kind? (Clitoral, Vaginal, G-Spot. Anal, Squirting, A-Spot, Cervix, Breast/Nipple, Touching, non- Touching/Mental)

If NO, would you ever have one? Would it be with 2 men or 2 women?

Family Relation Age Play

5- Do you fold or scrunch? (toilet paper while you wipe) 6- How about bad hygiene?

How many partners have you had oral sex with? Who? Care to Share?

53~ How much can you tell me about the one thing you are most passionate about?

Are you willing to help and encourage your partner to fulfill their fantasies and desires?

83~ How do you feel about Porn?

*** Questions about Relationships/Past ***

11- Is there something you would like me to do, in any area of our relationship that I have not done, or you want more of?

6- What’s your favorite TV series? Do you have a favorite genre? Do you a least favorite?

11~ Have you ever been caught by your parents or children or others while having sex?

28~ What are some things that turn on? What is your biggest turn on?

How do you feel about anal play? (Fingers, toys, butt plug) How do you feel about rimming? (licking)

Do you shave/trim your pubic hair? For you guys do you shave your balls?

21- Do you have any piercings? Are there any you want? Are there any you find sexy/attractive?

3- What’s your favorite smell? Do you a least favorite?

11- How about if they like a certain sports team? 12-How about drinking too much?

87~ Do you like it when I used my teeth (lightly)? How do you feel about hickeys?

52~ What are your hobbies?

21~ What was the best date you ever went on? What has been the worst?